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Discussion and resource forum for women who have had past severe trauma, such as rape, affect their lives. You are not alone. It's okay to be angry.
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Tuesday, 26 December 2017
Tuesday, 17 October 2017
Me too
Harvey Weinstein is a USA producer. It seems, right now, he's also a sexual predator. Is he?
The Guardian very recently produced a "growing number of actors and others in the film industry" who "have made accusations against the Hollywood film producer" (16 October). Do you believe them?
Rolling Stone said that "revelations have been coming fast and furious about once-revered Hollywood mogul" (11 October). Do you believe them?
Vanity Fair published a comment from Leonardo de Caprio: "There is no excuse for sexual harassment or sexual assault — no matter who you are and no matter what profession." (10 October). Do you believe him?
NY Times spoke about other "setbacks" from other Hollywood men when they said " the outcry accompanying Mr. Weinstein’s downfall seems louder and more impassioned" (16 October). Do you believe them???
Weinstein, Cosby, Harris, Hughes... so many more. Arabella Weir in UK The Guardian said that "British TV and film are rife with sexual bullying" (17 October). Some of the TV programs became the 'home' of sleazebags, like "Top of the Pops", according to Independent (27 February 2016) - they were listed a long time before Weinstein copped his downer.
So many more newspapers, online line sites, magazines or anything else to send out this information. Google it - or however you like to look. YES, it should be sent out. NO, it is not a woman's 'fault'.
YES, the women have the right to speak. #MeToo!
The Guardian very recently produced a "growing number of actors and others in the film industry" who "have made accusations against the Hollywood film producer" (16 October). Do you believe them?
Rolling Stone said that "revelations have been coming fast and furious about once-revered Hollywood mogul" (11 October). Do you believe them?
Vanity Fair published a comment from Leonardo de Caprio: "There is no excuse for sexual harassment or sexual assault — no matter who you are and no matter what profession." (10 October). Do you believe him?
NY Times spoke about other "setbacks" from other Hollywood men when they said " the outcry accompanying Mr. Weinstein’s downfall seems louder and more impassioned" (16 October). Do you believe them???
Weinstein, Cosby, Harris, Hughes... so many more. Arabella Weir in UK The Guardian said that "British TV and film are rife with sexual bullying" (17 October). Some of the TV programs became the 'home' of sleazebags, like "Top of the Pops", according to Independent (27 February 2016) - they were listed a long time before Weinstein copped his downer.
So many more newspapers, online line sites, magazines or anything else to send out this information. Google it - or however you like to look. YES, it should be sent out. NO, it is not a woman's 'fault'.
YES, the women have the right to speak. #MeToo!
Friday, 16 June 2017
Sexual assault – What's happening?
On 17 July 2015
Stephanie Anderson from SBS wrote an article titled Sexual assault: How
common is it in Australia? According to Anderson, “Australia has one of the highest rates of reported sexual
assault in the world, at almost 92 people per 100,000 of the population,
according to the United Nations.”
Her article gave statistics from NSW - she said that 3,951 sexual assaults were
reported to police, but only 18% of those – 715 - were charged, 52% of those
were found guilty – 374 – and 44% of those – 168 – got full sentences.
That's only 4% of the total reported to police. And yet she acknowledged that
few sexual assaults were ever reported to police. Eighteen months later, JaneGilmore wrote in News.com.au an article titled “Terrifying
truth about rape convictions: ‘It shatters your belief that the world is a safe
place’”, saying that “A report just released from
the Crime Statistics Agency found that in 2009 and 2010, over 3,500 rapes were
reported to Victoria Police. Of those, a tiny 3% ended in a court conviction.” Those stats probably won't change throughout the rest of this country.
An unnamed writer for ABC wrote an article on 2 September 2016, titled How the justice system lets
sexual assault victims down. She'd
been on a night out with some friends when she had been drugged and raped by a “colleague
and friend who I trusted”. She
said all the stuff that we know about: that women are blamed for rape because
we drink, we wear the “wrong clothes” and we “ask for it”. September 2016. Why
is this still happening?
In the USA, testing of 12,669 backlogged rape evidence
kits in Los Angeles led to convictions for rape cases which were more than 20
years old. Thousands more got tested in many other states, and Case Western Reserve University on Cuyahoga County, Ohio,
suggested that testing kits can prevent future rape. They also said “[b]ased
on our research in Cuyahoga County, we found that untested rape kits also
represent a missed opportunity to identify an unknown offender, confirm the
identify of a known offender, connect an offender to previously unsolved
crimes, even possibly exonerate innocent suspects, as well as populate the
federal DNA database.” Why are so many kits not tested within a date/time
period after the rape?
In February 2017,
Conversation wrote that bystanders who witness sexual harassment and sexual
assault often don’t intervene. They say that “[b]ystanders
can fear social embarrassment and breaching social norms” or that “men are
more likely to
adhere to the aforementioned myths and misconceptions about sexual violence”.
Earlier this year, university studies on rape claims
at universities which were being covered up and taken less seriously than
plagiarism were wrote about in an ABC article (February), and SMH wrote their own article about university sexual policies being “inconsistent” and
“confusing” (March). According to Conversation in April, 39 universities have
done a national research project on sexual harassment
and assault, and will release their findings. This is a well-written article,
and should be read to understand what is happening – if anything is
happening – to prevent future rape here.
Some of the reporting is
increasing, which is essential, according to an article from ABC yesterday.
Women are now feeling more comfortable about reporting sexual assault on public
transport. The Victorian Crime Statistics Agency and the Centre Against Sexual
Assault both say that the reported cases have increased significantly –
possibly because the sexual assaults have doubled in the last four years.
'Perhaps' we all need to
keep reading the articles, the university studies, compare the statistics from
previous years up to now. CASA provided a fact sheet entitled “Statistics
about sexual assault” this year. It can inform you.
'Perhaps' we need to be
aware.
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